This map out of the National Geographic magazine was sent to me by Xyzzy, a name that gives nothing away as to gender affiliation or relationship status. If Xyzzy is female and single, she’s a bit more likely than average to live on the East Coast of the US. If he’s male and single, he might just live on the West Coast.
This map might explain why ‘Sex and the City’ is set in New York, and not in Los Angeles. And why there’s so much gang violence in LA. So why can’t all those single guys from LA and those thousands upon thousands of single girls from NYC meet up somewhere in the middle?
unlikely to happen.
the single men in LA are low-income, low status Mexicans. the single women in NYC are from wealthy backgrounds and looking for wealthier husbands.
Comment by secret asian man — July 6, 2007 @ 11:31 pm
Two things to consider:
1. Given the size of many of these metro areas, the differences in the numbers of single men and single women are trivial. For instance, the Los Angeles metro area has 40,000 more single men than single women – and a total population of ~15 million. 40,000 people out of 15 million is nothing.
2. The biggest group of “single women” is comprised not of Sex and the City types, but rather of elderly widows.
Comment by Peter — July 7, 2007 @ 3:35 am
I guess many people took that saying ‘Go west, young man’ a bit literally.
Comment by MC — July 7, 2007 @ 3:38 am
haha, Xyzzy is a famous “code” from a computer game, so I’m guessing it’s a guy (out west? :D)
Comment by karan — July 7, 2007 @ 8:54 am
Las solteras a Nueva York y los solteros a Los Angeles [ENG]
En este curioso mapa publicado por el National Geographic Magazine podemos ver el reparto de solteros en USA. Mientras que en (más o menos) la mitad este (NY, Boston, Philadelphia, Washington DC, Memphis, Miami…) predominan las mujeres solteras, los…
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Because the middle is a dump.:-D
On geek forums, the usual analysis of this map is that all programmers move to California and programmers are, unfortunately, disproportionately male.
Comment by Leo Petr — July 7, 2007 @ 2:42 pm
haha…I like your analysis of gang violence in LA: too many single dudes running around not getting laid!
Comment by John — July 7, 2007 @ 6:04 pm
I poked around at the National Geographic site, and couldn’t find the map (or the article that might have discussed the stats). No sign of it in the Feb 2007 online content (http://www7.nationalgeographic.com/ngm/0702/).
Comment by *** Dave — July 7, 2007 @ 6:54 pm
Interesting.
Comment by Chattanoogan — July 7, 2007 @ 7:17 pm
@Peter:
You are right in pointing out that the number of single men and women is puny, compared to the general population of their areas. As Mark Twain once said: “there are three kinds of untruths: lies, damned lies and statistics.” And I do suppose the elderly widows have a harder time at finding a partner than the Kim Cattralls of this world.
@Leo Petr:
interesting explanation!
@*** Dave:
The map is referenced as from the NGM’s Feb ‘07 issue on several sites. Not all maps in the magazine are part of a larger article, and not all articles are mentioned online. I could check in my own issue, gimme a sec (…) Yep, it’s in there. Additional explanation for the overrepresentation of females on the East Coast: “58% of college students are women, giving most of the East’s college towns a female majority.” And: “Areas with more single men often have large numbers of illegal immigrants, some 58% of whom are male.”
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Comment by getboundless — July 7, 2007 @ 8:56 pm
meanwhile in Indiana- all the single men up north are going to deja-vu, showgirls, and the casinos, while the single women are working at Indy night clubs, and digging for high-status, rich indy govt types?
Comment by roach — July 7, 2007 @ 9:30 pm
Denver is blue. I’m doomed.
Comment by Patrick — July 7, 2007 @ 10:02 pm
great map…I guess the singles convention should be held somewhere in the Breadbasket!
Comment by Chris — July 8, 2007 @ 5:39 am
let’s meet somewhere in the middle :)
J.
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I think it might make more sense to show this in terms of percentages, not absolute numbers of people? (If I had their data and the time, I’d do it.)
There is a similar map showing the sex ratio in each county of the US, which shows some of the same trends. The Northeast doesn’t look like as much of an outlier on that map, though, probably because the Northeast has some very large urban areas. New York, Washington, Philadelphia, and Boston are #1, 4, 6, 7 respectively. But this isn’t exactly what I’m looking for, because it counts children and married people. (Married couples almost always bring the sex ratio back towards 1:1, since except in Massachusetts they consist of one male and one female.)
I wouldn’t be surprised to learn that states with more males have faster-growing economies, because places where the economy is growing faster probably have more risky ventures going on and risk tends to attract males more than females. The two cities out of the largest ten that have the largest proportion of females are Philadelphia and Detroit, which seems to support my idea.
Comment by Isabel — July 8, 2007 @ 5:36 pm
secret asian man, the wealthy women in NYC already have husbands. It’s us regular chicks who aren’t able to move in hedge fund manager circles who are left behind.
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Comment by Megan — July 9, 2007 @ 4:02 am
Interesting map, but there doesn’t seem to be a lot of info from the North western states, i wonder why….
Comment by Villa Rental — July 9, 2007 @ 4:08 am
Seattle has a nice big blue blob. I wonder if that’s the Microsoft effect?
Comment by Aaron — July 9, 2007 @ 3:42 pm
For the first time ever I’m glad to be living in a Red state…
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I wish I knew which of these “single” men and women liked girls. I’d move there quick.
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Comment by Your biggest fan! — July 10, 2007 @ 8:52 pm
For all you foreigners out there who don’t understand Jack’s comment (see #26 above), it’s a quip about American politics.
After color TV’s had become the norm in the USA during the 1970’s, American news anchors started using colored maps to represent each US state’s preference in Presidential elections. It was natural to use red and blue to represent the Democratic and Republican parties, since they appear on the American flag with white, and as a neutral color they though white would nicely represent a state that hasn’t been called yet.
However, some networks used red for the Democratic Party and blue for the Republicans, while others used the opposite. Not until the famously-close 2000 election was “blue Democrats, red Republicans” standard chosen by them all. Since the decisive state of Florida took so long to be decided, Americans saw the map flashed on their TV screens for about six more weeks, instead of forgetting about them the day afterwards as usual. American political commentators started talking about Republican-leaning states as “red states”, and Democratic-leaning ones as “blue states”, which they still do today.
Jack’s comment makes it clear that he is a Democrat, probably somewhere in the Northeast.
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One needs to be careful about not just getting data from a reliable source, but also UNDERSTANDING the data itself.
Several years ago, a well-known U.S. national magazine targeting young women ran a story with a title along the lines of, “Best Places in America to Find a Husband.” The author had taken the raw numbers from the 1990 U.S. Deciennial Census (the most recent at the time), and ranked the counties that had the highest proportion of single men, ages 18-35. Based on that ranking, the author concluded that the “best place to find a husband” was Brazoria County, Texas, a largely rural county directly south of Houston.
What the author didn’t note was that most of those single men lived in what the Bureau of the Census catergorizes as “group quarters,” which includes living arrangements such as college dorms, nursing homes and — the case of Brazoria County — six different state prison facilities.
Hey, good luck with that husband-hunting, ladies!
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The Atlantic Monthly used to do a series of maps dervied from US Census data. One of those dealt with availability of telephones. Another was the map of single men and women.
Because it was done by census areas, and not by metro areas, it included more places.
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So why can’t all those single guys from LA and those thousands upon thousands of single girls from NYC meet up somewhere in the middle?
Because then they’d have to go to Kansas and bloody Oklahoma.
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Comment by El Santo — September 14, 2007 @ 10:13 pm
Surprising that nobody has pointed out that the boy version Sex and the City (Entourage) is appropriately based in LAX.
Comment by traoki — September 19, 2007 @ 4:50 am
Moths to the flame.
Hotter women live in California (attracts more single dudes)
Richer dudes live in NYC, well at least flashier with the cash (attracts more single chics)
Characters on Entourage & Sex in the City both seem to validate that.
Comment by dougefresh — September 19, 2007 @ 5:19 am
I think it’s unlike to happen,
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Comment by tallgirl — September 19, 2007 @ 6:34 am
And the more time we spend looking at this map the more time we’ll spend single!!!! It’s a conspiracy to ensure that this map lives on!!!
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Comment by arthur — November 11, 2007 @ 7:51 pm
The map is misleading as it doesn’t adjust for overall population differences between areas examined. There’s no standardization of the measure. No valid conclusions can be drawn from this map.
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to Bob,
I prefer the map giving numbers unscaled to population. Otherwise you would have huge spots all over the country where a town of 50 has 25 unmarried women, and the percentage is huge. That doesn’t provide any meaningful information, i.e. I’m not going to move there to pick up ladies, whereas, thanks to this map, my bags are packed for NY.
Comment by flyingdics — January 15, 2008 @ 2:17 pm
I’m not surprised that the immediate St. Louis metropolitan area has more single men than single women…most of the singles groups I’ve been a member of or have checked out are predominantly male. It is especially true of the Catholic singles groups in the St. Louis area. (Lucky for me, I have lady friends in Erie, PA, where I plan to visit this summer.)
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I live on the KY/TN line, and it’s very interesting to see that there are more single men then women in the Fort Campbell, KY area. Cool map. Thanks for sharing.
Comment by April — April 3, 2008 @ 3:54 am
Wow, I can’t believe that the highest concentration of single girls are in NYC. The fact that this is a map out of the National Geographic shows the credibility as well! I’m almost inclined to go to NYC to poll single girls for their response to this…
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Comment by inderjeet — May 13, 2008 @ 9:59 pm
I have lived in NYC for several years now and I don’t even have any single guy friends. oh wait i do – but they are both gay. Me & all my single girlfriends just moan and complain, day in day out b/c this city is overun with single girls and the single straight men are few and far between and they know it – the have huge egos because they know they have the advantage here. It is not fun. I need to move!
Comment by NYCgirl — May 17, 2008 @ 11:01 pm
I too have lived in NYC for a few years and the whole time have been single. I’m from the midwest, where I always had a boyfriend or at least it seemed easy to get a date. Total opposite here in NY! All of my guy friends back home think it’s so strange that I have trouble out here, they all tell me that I am the most beautiful girl from our school, that they always wanted to hook up with me, that they’d take me out in a second if I’d let them…blah blah blah… and here in NYC I spend many a night home alone.
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Am i missing something, but what does this prove?
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Comment by scoot wade — September 15, 2008 @ 4:23 pm
If “single” includes divorced and widowed people regardless of age, that would explain some of what I am seeing in my area (downstate Illinois).
The two small blue dots, almost side by side, southwest of Chicago are Bloomington-Normal and Champaign-Urbana, both home to large state universities. Other blue dots (male plurality communities) in neighboring states are also university towns.
Between Chicago and St. Louis there are two small red (female plurality) dots and a slightly larger one.
The larger dot is Springfield, the state capital. I am guessing the female plurality here is attributable to a high number of state-employed clerical workers plus a high number of hospital and health care employees (there are two fairly large regional hospitals and a medical school there.)
The smaller red dots are Peoria and Decatur, both industrial towns with declining economies in recent years. Here I am guessing the female plurality consists mostly of middle-aged and older divorcees or widows, whose husbands may have worked in the local factories before they closed or downsized. Many of the “single women” in these communities could be retired, with grown children who have moved elsewhere to find work. Or they may be single mothers.
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Comment by odeneho — February 23, 2009 @ 4:50 pm
I’m a single guy moving to NYC from San Francisco. Given what I read here I should have no trouble meeting single girls, hahaha. Well, I would love to meet new people.
Comment by Delfo — February 28, 2009 @ 2:33 am
Ok, as a single girl who has lived in both New York and LA and who is a former professional Los Angeles matchmaker. There may be more single guys in LA, but they’re not interested in a long term relationship any more than most of the single girls in LA are. Most people of both genders in LA are looking over their current partner’s shoulder for a newer, better thing. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve heard, “I just have to ask myself if I’d really want to be their bf/gf if I landed a TV show, sold my script, got a movie deal etc. And the answer is usually, no.”
In terms of NY, I’m newly single here, but it does seem to me that the market is saturated with successful, attractive, ambitious women who are really not getting dates. However, I know way more people in NY who are actually married than I ever did in 7 years of living in LA.
Dating is hard everywhere, particularly in markets like LA and NY that self-select for the best and brightest. My advice is to concentrate on being your absolute best self, physically, mentally, and emotionally, get out and be social, and let the rest work itself out.
Comment by Jen — March 20, 2009 @ 3:51 am
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Comment by Tony — May 4, 2009 @ 2:53 am
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luck
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Comment by aspicco . — May 17, 2009 @ 5:28 am
<<>>
I live in LA and and I have to agree. In LA there is always another event, more singles activities. Everyone looks to date up/ and if you don’t find the someone this weekend, you will next weekend. And the actor/Hollywood component contributes to it.
Being single is related to where you live imo, and smaller towns tend to encourage pairing up more. All my friends in my small hometown are married and if they get divorced, it is not long before they are married again.
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One problem with this map is how to define “single.” If it is just those who are not married at the present moment, then one must take into account that women tend to live longer than men. Women tend to outlive their husbands. So, many of those “single” women in the eastern part of the United States may just be older women who were married but are now widows. Also, under the age of 35, there are more males than females because there are about 107 boys born for every 100 girls in the USA. About age 35, the number of men and women starts to equalize due to the fact that men tend to die younger in larger numbers than women. After 40, women become more plentiful than men. This map may just indicate that a younger population lives in the western USA (indicated by more single men), while an older population lives in the easter USA (indicated by more single women).
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Comment by girl russian — September 22, 2009 @ 5:26 pm
hello dearest
my name is kaveh. i am 38.i am from iran. i have master of science. i was born in one of coastal cities in north of iran.i want to write my autobiography for you. because i think that i can transfer my sentiment you.i hope you judge about it fairly.although it is very shocking for you and your compatriots but i can not hold myself.i think it can prevent some of bitter events in future. but what happen for us?
i am 38.i was born in 1970.from my childhood i have been eyewitness some of organized crimes about us(i mean our families,relatives,…)but in that time i could not distinguish and discover them and i was thought that they were a natural phenomena.with passage of times my cognition increase gradually.but what happen for us?
in outset i decide to classify some of shocking crimes about us.all of them have performed by some of satanists:
1-to make blind my father and tortured him for years and killing him finally.
2-to madden one of my brothers and sicken him too.in near future he will sacrifice.he was not crazy at all.he was accepted as medical student in tehran university with excellent score.he was similar others.one of his most important problems was his sexuall standard.i mean if he had sex with female his faintness could recover considerably.but a lot of persons had jealousy about our family living and they divert realities and declared that he need to psychopathy. my parents was very candid and naive.but some of persons in my environment were like as wolf.and they increased his faintness skilfully.they concentrated all of their efforts for our family frustration by calamities imposition. they were very filthy,cruel,…in anyway my brother went to psychiatrist .also he was not mad relative other iranian people,but psychiatrists madden him and they were very fool,ignorant,…in recent years the satanists sicken him too.i think he will sacrifice soonly.
3-to made lost my other brother in war times.his lost still is enigma!he has lost for 26 year.
4-to debase my personality from my childhood by means ignorant persons.
5-to excruciate my mother by different ways through shocking disasters imposition to her. I have hinted some of them above.my mother was very kind,tender,candid,hard working,…
she had experienced hard times from her childhood.but satanists impudently continued their filthy schemes about her latter.my brother(2) annoied my mother a lot.in fact the satanists tourtured my mother.because they were main culprit.they have increased my brother nerve faintness.my brother was not crazy.he was faint. his faintness was merely because of envirnoment and exogenous factores not other things. i mean because of satanists precence in our environment.any way my mother suffered again a lot.in finally the satanists sicken her too.and she martyred in very pitiful conditions after years.her martyrdom was very shocking for us.damn to satanists!
5-to lengthen my marriage trend on pretext to test us!?my marriage trend have prolonged for seven years.when i was studying in isfehan university(iran central city)i had recieved my okay about my marriage with a girl from kashan(one of desert and central cities in iran)but it has prolonged for seven years and from that times the satanists were claimed it clear after my brother get sacrificed(2) and from that times i have been eye witness my parent tortures and martyrdom and my brother sicken,…and some of suspicious deathes my kins too.the satanists have diverted my marriage to soccer and football game and it is similiar to pass of mine field.i guess it continue till 2 years other.i mean after my brother become sacrificed.
i hope you dont tire from my statements.but why the Satanists have targeted us? it return to far years. Iran had other government previously(kingdom dynasty of pahlavi).iran have been a lawless and very polluted and tainted country from that times.one of my uncles was monarchist.he was killed and sacrificed by his political opponents or opponent by a designed scenario in that times(55 years ago).he was very young boy.his main killer fled to overseas(perhaps Canada or france)and he was studied in medical course.later years he returned to Iran and employed as medical professor. my other uncle complained him. but his complaint didn’t investigate fairly and he retaliated and killed his brother killer. This matter had extensive reflectance in Iranian media.on the other of hand iran was ran by mafia bands. This events was first spark in order to form some of calamities about us in later years.but what was other factor?my father was a traditionalist and very naive and candid. He had religious relation with islamist Iranian leader(imam Khomeini) in that times. These factores were main reasons for forming imposing calamities to us later years by Satanists(mafia bands).although the roots of disasters about us return in pahlavi dynasty,but most of them have incarnated in Islamic revolution regime.why?some of Satanists have been claiming the roots of them return to my high school career ,other Satanists have been claiming irony me:come on drink tea(it refer to tea ceremony in hongkong).any way they said my situation is like as iran revolution(against iran king),…and my marriage performance is similar to moon rising,Iranian leaders rebirth,iran revolution,…they have concluded that I have to experience some of catastrophe in next years too!?some of them threaten me about my family massacre in future too.i notify that you can not discover their schemes easily.because they have satanic power and they perform their filthy plots skillfully. They live anywhere. Some of them have claimed that they are representatives of god.they are very reactionary,filthy,…they claim my parents had natural death and no one blinded my father,… They claim that I am visionary,liar!on the other hand they say that they want to test us!what happen in their filthy brains?they have degraded my personality even in recent years on pretext to test me,but as a matter of fact they want to continue their filthy schemes skillfully.they despised my personality ,when I was busied in office(commerce ministry). they have sham quarrel one another too in order to performance their filthy schemes.they made unemployed me skillfully. They have not permited me that I can speak with my selected women and they have not allowed me that to marry . they have jealousies with me.they have claimed my parents and one or two of my families were Koran matyres and sacrifices(Koran is muslims sacred books).spit to them .they are very backward,filthy,…they are racist(including of religious and non religious sects).they want every one accept their disgusting ideologies anyway. If one to be liberal and noble,they deprive his right and impose disasters him skillfully.do you observe such persones in your countries?they are monster really.they have incarnated demon and satan on the earth.
I want you awaken your conscience. You judge about them.although I abhore to live in iran a lot and I wish to immigrate to overseas as soon as possible,and even I am learning to foreign languages now.in the present situation I have two idea:the performance my marriage with my selected girls or immigrate to overseas.it is not alternative at all considering my critical situation.i like to work in overseas.i like to work as interpreter or similar jobs. I hate my studying course(economy). The Satanists ban us and claim I must to wait for till my brother be sacrificing. they play with me.they divert my situation to football game.they are very impudent and jealous and filthy.you may to ask me ,what kind females I love?i love adolescent(especially 14 years old),nymphet,kind,sensual,belle,vivacious,open minded,tender,busty,buxom,voluptuou s,liberal,singer,musician,athlete,artist,…girls.i like that I can to have be a lot of mistress in future.i said I have received my marriage okay seven years ago,but its performance depend to my brother sacrificing!i have been eyewitness my parent,… tortures,martyrdom,…from last years.i have very crucial situation in present.i interest to immigrate overseas as soon as possible.from my childhood I had lovely personality and I was intended to have be ladylove.but my society culture have been very backward and reactionary.a lot of persons in iran are philistine,artless,rude and their traditional norms don’t allow they have be a romantic,human,…living.i want you see me..i hope my information can be useful for you.
In the name of my mother I end my words temporary.i hope that I have could show facts . I hope you don’t tire me!thank you.
Yours kaveh yousefzadeh
exuse me!i want to notify that from last years there have been a lot of satanists in iran.you can not see my intentions at all.the satanists can madden one healthy person or sicken him(my brother was a sample).they can infect other persons to incurable diseases(my parent were a sample).the satanists enforce other persons accept their filthy and disgusting,reactionary,… ideology.if one does not accept them ,they impose differents disasters him or her in future.some of satanists impudently claim that they are representatives of god and they perform their filthy deeds by god order.in fact their god is demon.i hope you believe me.the diabolists doing their works skilfully.they live anywhere.they have been from last years in religious and irreligious masks.i hope you introduce all of them.my mother tourture and martyrdom trend have been extra shoking for me.they torment my mother from her childhood.they made blind my father and tourtured him for years and sacrificed him finally.some of people say me irony that my parent and one or two of my family were fallen in jug!(giant jug).this is iran!what do you think about it.do you think such persons are human or monster?then they pretend that all of disaster about us and others were natural.i mean natural phenomena and they say every complaint about their shoking crimes is similar to fighting with god!i want to say your opinions about iran need to amendment. they have been saying my marriage trend is time intensive and it merely clarify after my brother be sacrificing(2) and on the other hand they divert my marriage to football and it is similar to passing of mine field.in meanwhile they claim all of my assertions is futile and false and i am visionary and liar.i expect you show satanists at least. in the name of my mother i end my words temporary.thank you
kaveh yousefzadeh
pardon me.considering my crucial situation i have two plan in present :
1-to immigrate a foreign country as soon as possible
2-to clear my marriage with my fiancee or other girl that to be my selected.i love adolescent,nymphet,kind,teen(14 years old),open minded,lovely,sensual,voluptuous,la scivious,vivacious,musician,singer, p rogressive,cute,sexy,nice,…girls.
although i recieved my ok about my marriage seven years ago,but the satanists dont allow my marriage to form.they always claim my marriage merely clear after my brother be sacrificed(2).i have been eye witness my parent excruciation and martyrdom for years.the satanists assert that they are god order performers!they say my parent and us have been exposed god ordeal and test.this is their filthy idea about mankind!this is iran.this is their civilization.damn them forever.they accuse me as liar ,visionary. they say my parent, relatives have been natural death. they claim no one sicken and blind my father and he was sicken normally and natural, and no one,… they claim that the origin of calamities and misfortune about us return to last Iranian regime(I mean pahlavi dynasty).it is interesting that most of them for us have performed in recent regime! .they have annoyed us from last years. .from my childhood I have confronted their schemes about us.they perform their satanic plots professionally. for example they can pollute water closet water or plumbing networks,…. they use a lot of filthy plots in order to kill their victims.i want you show facts and don’t permit my parent bloods,… be trample.i hope you unite me in order to smash Satanists in anywhere and in any form and mask.we must not allow that they continue to perform their satanic intentions about mankind.
In the present situation I must wait until my situation to be clear. But I want to speed up my situation.one option is immigration to overseas and it is my favorite a lot. other option is my marriage with my fiancée or other girls that to be my selected. again I expect you show facts clearer at least. In the name of my mother I finish my statements. Thank you.
Yours kaveh yousefzadeh
i love foreign languages a lot and i interest to work with foreign language merely. I love foreigners a lot. i love new phenomenas and cultures. I have a lovely,kind,vivacious,progressive,w omanizer,pleasure seeker personality. I am hedonist. I love to learn and practice piano,guitar,…and some of sport courses such as swiming,gymnastic,riding(horse),… too forever.i love romance films,opera,…a lot.i love to trip overseas for ever. i love to learn foreign languages for ever. in present situation i intend to learn english and russian language simultaneously.i am internationalist.i love to read articles about anthropology,especially about primitive societies.i like to can have be a lot of lady love from around of world in future.i abhore reactionaries,inhuman,middle ages ideologies a lot. i love to work as interpreter or similiar jobs with it(i mean i like to work in foreign space that in which merely be used foreign language not other thing.
i look for a girl with following conditions:
belle,kind,vivacious,pretty,voluptuous,sensual, little,adolescent(particularly 14 years old),progressive,liberal,lovely ,flexible,…
i love to be acquaint with new and virgin cultures from overseas. i love singers,dancers,artists ,musicians, athletes women.
i hate racism and obscurantism ideologies a lot.i am true liberal.i want to find a girl with above mention scales sooner. it is very important for me.
thank you!
yours ever kaveh!
hello!
this is kaveh yousefzadeh. i want to marry soonest. if you incline to have be relationship with me, please send answer to my request.i am very amiable,kind, progressive,open minded person. please say about you more.do you intend to marry?what is your favourite criterias for your future partner?i wait for your answer as soon as possible.
thankfully kaveh yousefzadeh!
Hello I want to marry with girls with following conditions:
Lass,little,teen,cute, open minded,vivacious, flexible,nymphet ,sentimental,kind,pleasant,exciting love,lascivious,pretty.
I am 38.i have master of science in economy.i abhore dark ages ideology a lot. I am progressive,kind,pleasant.i am learning two foreign language simultaneously(English and Russian).if you find the above mentioned girls,please send their resume and pictures,.. to my email.again I say that I love nymphet girls and 14 years girls a lot. I wait for your answer soonest. Thank you
Kaveh yousefzadeh
excuse me. i expect you introduce my parent killers and show who have imposed calamities to us from last years.in the past i hinted to some of them. all of them is true.unfortunately a lot of persons have intended to instill others mind that my claims are false.spit to them.they have sham quarrel one another.because they want to continue their crimes skilfully. in fact they embody evil.they have prolonged my marriage for years(at least 7 years).they tortured my parent for years and martyred them finally.they intend to divert my marriage ,… to football game.it is similiar to pass of mine field.they are very filthy,cruel,backward,reactionary,…they have despised my personality impudentely.they have banned us.my situation is defacto. i request you show my parent killers,…i think that the performers of clamities are much worse than designers.so i hope you show the performers.i want you introduce big boss.who make order to satanists?in the name of my martyr mother i end my talks and i wait for your constructive role.
Thank you kaveh yousefzadeh
pardon me. i want to prove that Iran is a satan-stroken country.you can discover satan anywhere and in anyone. you can find evil forces in form of any persons.some of satanists are following:clergies,police,minesters,traders,staff of offices,doctores,universities professores,repairers,radio and tv announceres,information ministry staffs,cooks,grocers,barbers,bakers,fruiterers,students,childs,olds,drivers,….as a matter of fact a lot of persons extols devil forces as their god.their god is shit.iranian god have been satan from last years.they have praised demon forces from long years ago.their god is racist.i expect your media show demon forces clearer. satanists have done a lot of crimes and murder from last years.damn them forever.you can not discover their crimes easily.because they have misused from their illegal poweres and they misuse scientific achivements in order to performance their sinister plots. i hint some of their filthy plots:
1-killing their victimes by artificial car accident,…2-sicken others to incurable diseases.3-selling pathogenic matters to others.4-to taint water and electricity instruments networks to fatal matters. for example they can kill others by their coolers and refrigerators and tv,…nobody notice them and all think the victims have a normal and natural death. the Satanists use a lot of other plots as well.
the satanists claim that they want to embody their god power on the earth.their ideologies are very filthy,disgusting,cruelly,…the satanists dont restrict to a certain sect.even they are one another enemies.they belong to religious and irreligious sects.you can find them anywhere unfortunately.the number of them have increased considerably.the satanists can madden one healthy person even.i expect you read my autobiography with more scrutiny.the satanists can ban one and impose calamities to him or her skilfully.again i notify that iran is a satan-stroken country from ancient times. but demon forces have increased in recent years considerably.iran have been a lawless country from last years.jungle law have been dominated in iran from ancient times.i hope you disclose diabolists in your media. because they want to diabolize in future too. and the satanists intend to continue their filthy crimes forever.the satanists are impostor,liar,cruel,reactionary,backward, racist,facist,…a lot of them want to revive dark ages ideology(medieval ages)again.they tortured and martyred my parent,…and then they deny their filthy crimes.and they claim that they had natural disease and death.they accuse me as a liar and visionary person.our conditions are defacto.why world society have not reacted against them so far?the satanists have prolonged my marriage for seven years at least. the satanists say me that they want to test us!spit to them.the Satanists intend to enforce their disgusting ideology forcefully.the satanists have sham quarrel one another even.i expect your media publish my autobiography and you show satanists real faces in your media soonest.i expect you cooperate me in order to neutralization satanists filthy plots in future and you introduce all of them.i love to quit iran a lot.do you help me in order to my immigration?i abhor to live in iran.in the name of my mother i end my talks temporary.
thankfully kaveh yousefzadeh!
Excuse me
As I said ago, I have a crucial situation now. Because the Satanists madden my brother on the one hand and they have deprived me from initial rights on the other hand.my brother(mr saadollah or masoud yousefzadeh)annoyed his family a lot for long years.he was not crazy.his fainting was merely his low sexual standard and other imposed factores to him through the Satanists.i anticipate he die two years later at most . because he has other diseases too. As a matter of fact the Satanists sicken him to other diseases as well.he is crazy now.his nerve system is very weak. the Satanists intend to continue their filthy plots about us . but I want to smash and disclose them .the number of them have increased a lot.most of them imagine that want to perform god instructions.but they are mistaken hardly.because they extol demon forces as their god.they want to show that their victims have natural deathes.so they misuse scientific instruments in order to performance their crimes and murders.some of ignorant people claim my brother ,… have involved to divine tortures. In fact they want to justify the mention organized crimes . so I want to prove that iran have degraded morally a lot.i hope you show facts more.in meanwhile I notify iran have demon forces from last years. But no one have disclosed them so far.i expect you believe me and you witness our critical conditions. Some of ignorant people assert that we were historical.
Again I say that I prefer to live in foreign country .the Satanists want to debase my personality more.they are very skillful and you can see them anywhere. The Satanists claim that I am visionary and liar. My situation is defacto.the Satanists don’t permit that my situation clarified.they obstruct regulary.they want to impose their disgusting tastes me in all of fields including my marriage. When I want to resist against them they are asserting that I have an indomitable personality. In fact they want that I justify their filthy crimes and murders. Because they have performed god orders.but their god is evil not other thing.in the name of my mother I end my words temporarily.
Thankfully kaveh yousefzadeh
heloo!
this is kaveh yousefzadeh. i would like to live and study in your country.considering my crucial situation and my bitter autobiography and a lot of other reasons ,i expect you cooperate me in order to immigrations to your countries.i hope you contact me soonest.i have written my address in following.your success is my wish.i wait for your answer as soon as possible.
thankfully kaveh yousefzadeh
sepidar complex
second floor
kaveh yousefzadeh
imam khomeini square
sepidar street
vavan town
islamshahr city
iran
postal code:3317843154
tel number:0098 228 3170996
Hello
This is kaveh yousefzadeh. I have Master of Science in economy. I would like to work in foreign firms. I like to experience traineeship course in your company as well . If you need me, please contact me as soon as possible.
Thankfully kaveh yousefzadeh
hello !
this is kaveh yousefzadeh. i have ma in economy. i would like to employ in your newspaper as translater. i mean that i want to translate english contexts to persian.as well i like to have be training course for translators. if you need my favourite job ,please send your reply to my email.i wait for your answer. in present situation ,i can translate your english contexts to by internet.thank you .
best regard kaveh yousefzadeh
با سلام اینجانب کاوه یوسف زاده دارای مدرک کارشناسی ارشد در رشته اقتصاد میباشم.جویای ازدواج با دخترانی برخوردار با شرایط ذیل می باشم:بسیار زیبا بچه سال متمدن مترقی مهربان باصفا ازاده خوش فکر تحصیل کرده و… باشند.دخترانی که شدیدا از تفکرات قرون وسطائی احتراز کرده و شدیدا غیر سنتی باشند.دخترانی نواندیش و…مورد علاقه بنده است .کسانی که فاصله سنیم با انها بسیار زیاد باشد.سنین نوجوانی از منظر بنده مناسب می باشد(کران پائین ان).بنده دوست دارم که همسران اتیم اهل هنر و ورزش بالاخص در زمینه موسیقی کلاسیک و…باشند.دوست دارم که همسران اتیم همواره مشوقم باشند و به شکوفائی مستقلانه و ازادانه ام بسیار بها دهند. از جهت اخلاقی با بنده سازگاری داشته باشند و به این نکته بسیار مهم اشراف داشته باشند که من از تفکرات سنتی و قرون وسطائی بشدت متنفرم.لذا اگر انها در جهت تغییر تفکرات خود قدمی برندارند صد درصد مطمئن باشند که بنده هرگز نمیتوانم شریک زندگی شان باشم و بنابراین از همین حالا از تصمیم خود منصرف شوند و زندگی خود و بنده را تباه نکنند.بنده چند سالی است که در وزارت بازرگانی به فعالیت اشتغال دارم و در طول این دوره و حتی قبل از ان دخترانی به بنده پیشنهاد شد که اصلا با معیارهای بنده سازگاری نداشته اند. حتی در همین شهرک مسکونیمان چنین رویه ای از ناحیه برخی افراد بی اطلاع تا همین هفته های اخیر پیشنهاد شد که اندک تشابهی با معیارهای بنده ندارند و صرفا به تشدید تنش های مختلف انجامیده که کار بسیار اشتباهی است که اینها انجام میدهند. در طول چند هفته اخیر بنده با دو دختر خانم در دو نوبت متوالی در اداره بازرگانی دولتی طبقه هشتم واقع در میدان فاطمی مواجه شده ام.خیلی دوست دارم با انها صحبت کنم و از نقطه نظرات و تفکرات شان مطلع شوم.از حیث ظاهری انها بنده را به خود جذب کرده اند. منتها از جهت فکری نسبت به انها اطلاع ندارم و شاید با اصول فکری بنده همخوانی نداشته باشند.خیلی دوست دارم که مشاورین شما قدم رنجه کرده و تمهیداتی اتخاذ کنند که بتوان با انها بیشتر اشنا شد.لازم به ذکر است که طی این چند سال هیچ کدام از پرسنل وزارت بازرگانی نظرم را به خودشان جذب نکرده است. بجز تعداد بسیار قلیلی که متاسفانه اکثرشان ازدواج کردند. لذا تسریع به امر پیگیری در این زمینه مایه کمال امتنان است و پاداش ان هم متعاقبا به شما تقدیم می شود.ضمنا باید بگویم که بنده در طول این سالها شاهد عینی مصائب بسیار مدهشی بوده ام که از رهگذر ان پدر و مادرم به نحو جانگدازی پس از طی رنجهای تحمیلی بسیار به شهادت رسیدند و یکی از برادرانم نیز متاثر از همین بلایای سازمان یافته مدتهاست که در جنگ مفقود الاثر شده و برادر دیگرم نیز به نام سعدالله (مسعود) یوسف زاده در اینده نزدیک به جرگه قربانیان خواهد پیوست. بنده پیش بینی میکنم که وی تا حداکثر دو سال دیگر قربانی شود.لازم به ذکر است که متاثر از همین بلایای سازمان یافته نامبرده دچار ضعف شدید اعصاب شده و مشکلات زیادی برای خانواده خود و خودش تحمیل کرده که زبانزد خاص و عام میباشد.هرچند که وی روانی نبود بلکه وی را به شکل حرفه ای بیمار کرده اند و حتی چند صباحی است که نامبرده را به امراض جسمانی نیز مبتلا نموده اند.
این مطالب را عنوان کردم تا شما تصویر بهتری از شرایط من در ذهن خود ترسیم کنید.
به هر صورت منتظر اقدام شما هستم.ضمنا بهتر است که قبل از این که دختری را یافتید حتما وی را به من نشان دهید تا نسبت به پیگیری مساله تامل شود.حتما شرایط و معیارهای انتخاب همسر مرا رعایت کنید.ضمنا ترتیبی اتخاذ شود که بنده بتوانم با دخترانی که در اداره بازرگانی دولتی دیده ام گپی داشته باشم.از لحاظ ظاهری انها برایم جذاب بوده اند. ضمنا اگر دختران مشابهی سراغ دارید عکس وشماره تلفن شان را از طریق ایمیل برایم ارسال کنید.(اول البته عکس شان را )
همکاری شما در این دوران خطیر بسیار نافذ خواهد بود و پاداش های زیادی را برایتان در اینده به ارمغان خواهد داشت.البته به شرطی که از معیارهای بنده عدول نکند.موفق و کامیاب باشید. در انتظار همکاری عملی و سازنده تان هستم. البته نه به صورتی که همکاران شما عنوان میکنند مبنی بر این که باید در جلسات موسسه تان برای اشنائی با دختران شرکت کنم. که به علت بعد مکانی بنده و این که غالبا چنین افرادی مورد پسنده واقع نمی شوند امری غیر قابل پذیرش می باشد..چرا که در شرایط ازاد و بازی عملی نمیشود و طیف افراد مزبور بسیار محدود می باشد.
با تشکر ارادتمندتان کاوه یوسف زاده
Pardon me!
As I said before,my situation has defacto situation.it seems my brother(I mean saadollah(masoud)yousefzadeh) be sacrifice as a result of heart attack or heart halt soonest or he die due to internal diseases soonest. As a matter of fact the Satanists sicken and madden him by fatal matters injection .i forecast he dies 2 years latter at most.in meanwhile the Satanists madden him as well .he is intolerable now.damn the Satanists everlasting. they killed and martyred my mother previously.my mother was martyred by heart halt. the Satanists tortured her for long years and killed her by ampul injection finaly.they blinded my father and killed him after his torment for years. The cursed Satanists deny their crimes.they are very disgusting! some of them suppose that they are representative of god. what futile vision! in fact their god is demon. they want to justify their filthy dark ages ideology. I expect you introduce them at least. also the Satanists accuse me flagrantly as liar and visionary and they say me that I have delusions. but they can not hide their shocking crimes anymore. the Satanists intend to torment me on pretext to test me. spit to them.the Satanists want to obstruct my work.they want to continue their sinister plots again. they want to debase my personality.i don’t allow them that they continue their work.i want to disclose them forever. the Satanists god is racist, obscurantist,cruel,fiend.their middle ages ideology is doomed to certain defeat. the diabolists intend to annoy me more.they want that I justify their disgusting deeds.they expect that I be their obedient.never!also I prefer to quit iran as soon as possible a lot. Iran have been a satan-stroken country from ancient times. there are a lot of Satanists in iran ,…their work is calamity and misery imposition to others skillfully. no one can discover their crime at all.the Satanists misuse scientificall instruments. in the name of my mother I end my informative report at present
Thankfully kaveh yousefzadeh
با سلام اینجانب کاوه یوسف زاده از پرسنل پیمانی وزارت بازرگانی می باشم که در واحد ثبت سفارشات به فعالیت اشتغال داشتم.به علت رفتار بسیار مداخله جویانه وغیر محترمانه پاره ای از کارکنان ان وزارت خانه که فاقد توجیه میباشد مدت قریب به یک سال است که فاقد هر گونه ممر درامدی بوده و پرونده بنده در کمال ناباوری به واحد تخلفات اداری فرستاده شد .این در حالی است که بنده شاکی می باشم.ضمن انکه در طول سالهای فعالیتم در ان اداره کارهایی به بنده سپرده می شد که فاقد ارتباط معنی دار با سطح تحصیلاتم بوده است و نحو ه برخورد پاره ای از کارکنان ان اداره و … بشدت گستاخانه و مداخله جویانه و… بود.از طرف دیگر بنده متاثر از جنایات سازمان یافته ای که در طول سالیان طولانی بر برخی از اعضای خانواده ام اعمال شده بود و نمونه بارز ان در شهادت جانگداز پدر و مادرم در طول سالیان اخیر توسط نمایندگان شیطان بود شکوایه های متعددی به مسئولین نظام ارائه کردم.از طرف دیگر یکی از برادرانم توسط همین نمایندگان شیطان به امراض روانی و ایضا جسمانی مبتلا شده و بنظر میرسد که در طول ماه های اتی به جرگه قربانیان بپیوندد.جریان ازدواج بنده به مدت هفت سال است که طول کشیده و تحقق ان احتمالا پس از قربانی شدن همین اخویم روشن خواهد شد.با توجه به دلایل و علل متعدد بنده در صدد به تسریع انداختن امر ازدواجم می باشم. البته مشروط بر انکه بر مبنای علائق و سلایق شخصیم باشد .این مطلب را از ان جهت عنوان کردم که در طول این هفت سال چه در دوران تحصیلیم در دانشگاه اصفهان و چه در زمان فعالیتم در اداره و چه در شهرک مسکونیمان عده ای بیمار قصد انحراف امر ازدواج بنده به مسیری که باعلائقم هیچگونه سازگاری ندارد می باشند.که این مایه بسی تاسف است و جز شرمساری برای مجریان این عمل نفرت انگیز مداخله جویانه چیز دیگری به همراه نخواهد داشت. بنده در طول ماه های گذشته شکوایه هائی را نیز به مسئولین وزارت بازرگانی و واحد تخلفات اداری ارائه کردم. منتها متاسفانه برخی از مسئولین ذیربط عامدانه از پذیرش واقعیت سر باز زده و در کمال ناباوری حتی به بنده انگ افرادی که از اعصاب ضعیف برخوردار بوده نیز زده اند که این واقعا جای تاسف است.با توجه به این مسایل بنده در صدد به تسریع انداختن و روشن کردن سریع امر ازدواجم انگونه که به مدت هفت سال تحقق ان را فقط مشروط به قربانی شدن اخویم به نام سعدالله(مسعود) یوسف زاده کرده اند می باشم. از طرف دیگر نامبرده در شرایط فعلی غیر قابل تحمل بوده و از جهت عصبی به شدت در وضعیت بحرانی بسر می برد. ضمن انکه به امراض جسمانی نیز مبتلا می باشد و این همه توسط افرادی صورت گرفته که در واقع در زمره نمایندگان شیطان طبقه بندی می شوند. هر چند که به زعم باطل خود ادعای دیگری میکنند.انها مسئول اصلی بسیاری از بلایا و شداید تحمیل شده بر ما بوده و دیر نخواهد بود که در اینده ای نه چندان دور سزای جنایات خود را ببینند.به امید ان روز.با توجه به شرایطی که بنده با ان دست وپنجه نرم میکنم خواهشمند است پس از قرائت کلیه نامه هائی که به مسئولین ان اداره ارائه کرده ام پاسخ شایسته را به بنده در اسرع وقت ارائه دهید.هر چند که بنظر میرسد تحقق و روشن شدن امر ازدواجم بنا به دلایل متعدد بر سایر مسایل اولویت دارد.وهر چند که زمان بر میباشد.بنده بشدت از ازدواج تحمیلی متنفرم .هر چند که افراد جاهل حتی طی همین ماه های اخیر چنین رویه ای را اتخاذ کرده بودند.که البته جز شرمساری برای انها چیز دیگری به همراه نخواهد داشت.مستدعی است نامه هایی که بنده در طول ماه های گذشته به وزیر محترم بازرگانی و مسئول واحد تخلفات نوشته بودم مورد بازخوانی قرار گرفته و مطابق با مفاد مندرج در ان پاسخ لازم به اینجانب ارائه گردد.از اینکه مصدع اوقات شریف تان شدم پوزش می طلبم. با تشکر کاوه یوسف زاده
با سلام اینجانب کاوه یوسف زاده از کارکنان پیمانی اداره ثبت سفارشات معاونت بازرگانی خارجی می باشم. غرض از تصدیع در ادامه مطالبی که قبلا چه به طریق پست الکترونیکی و چه از طریق نامه های مکتوب و چه از طرق دیگر به استحضارتان رساندم بنده و تنی چند از اعضای خانواده ام دیر زمانی است که اماج دسایس شیطانی پاره ای از فرقه های منحط شیطانی شده ایم .بگونه ای که از رهگذر این مساله والدینم پس از طی نمودن مصائب و الام وبلایای تحمیل شده بر انها پس از مدت طولانی به شکل فجیعی به شهادت رسیدند و بنظر میرسد که یکی از برادرانم به نام سعدالله یوسف زاده موسوم به مسعود در اینده نزدیک به جرگه قربانیان بپیوندد.ضمن انکه متاثر از دسایس همین فرقه های منحط و پلید شیطانی نامبرده به امراض روانی و ایضا جسمانی هم مبتلا شده و هم اکنون تحمل او بسیار دشوار است.چرا که قوای فکری او شدیدا ضربه دیده است. این همه در حالی است که دیگران جنایات مزبور را انکار میکنند و در کمال ناباوری انگ افرادی را که دچار اوهام و خیالات شده به بنده میزنند و بدینسان خوش خدمتی خود را به جنود شیطان به نمایش میگذارند.در طول سالهایی که بنده در ان وزارت خانه به فعالیت اشتغال داشتم مشاغلی به بنده سپرده شد که فاقد هرگونه مهارت بوده وبسیار پیش افتاده بود. رفتار پاره ای از کارکنان ان وزارت خانه بسیار غیر محترمانه و مداخله جویانه وگستاخانه بود.نامبردگان در معیت افراد دیگر از هیچ کوششی در جهت کوچک جلوه دادن بنده و… فروگذار نکرده و همواره در مسایل شخصی و خانوادگیم مداخله نمودند و محیطی بسیار مسموم و چندش انگیز را ایجاد نمودند .بگونه ای که متاثر از انها برخی از مجموعه ساکنان شهرک مسکونیمان واوان همان رویه انها را به اشکال دیگری ادامه داده اند.نهایتا حتی بنده مورد ناسزای بیشرمانه برخی از همین کارکنان نگون بخت وزارت بازرگانی قرار گرفتم و نامبردگان بشکل بسیار زننده ای بنده را از اداره اخراج نمودند. جالب این جاست که برخی از کارکنان اداره تخلفات در کمال بیشرمی خود را به تجاهل زده و همان رویه همکارانشان و… را به اشکال مزورانه و چندش انگیزی در پیش گرفته اند و در کمال بیشرمی و وقاحت انگ افرادی را که دچار ضعف اعصاب بوده و در اوهام بسر می برد به بنده میزنند و هیچگونه پروایی هم از این رفتار نفرت انگیز و بیشرمانه و مزورانه خود حس نمیکنند.ان جانیان ملعونی که با تحلیلهای بی پایه دست کثیفشان به خون پدر و مادرم و… اغشته شده است و در کمال وقاحت ان را به مثابه ازمونی الهی بلایی اسمانی میپندارند و همچنان همان ایده های کثیف شیطانی خود را توجیه میکنند در چه فکرند؟دیری نخواهد پایید که همگی این جانیان به زباله دانی تاریخ می پیوندند وجنایات بیشمار انها بر ملا خواهد شد و طبعا انتقام خون پدر و مادرم و… که به ناحق ریخته شد از انها گرفته خواهد شد.به امید فرا رسیدن قریب الوقوع ان روز.اما تقاضای بنده چیست؟
اولا باید کلیه کسانی که در طول این دوره رفتارهای زننده وتوهین امیزی درقبال بنده اتخاذ داشته و در شکل بسیار بیشرمانه و توجیه ناپذیری بنده را به نیروی انتظامی ارجاع داده و کمال گستاخی و هتک حرمت را در قبال بنده اتخاذ داشته اند(بالاخص نیروی حراست)شدیدا متنبه و رسوا گردند.ناگفته نماند که عمل انجام گرفته شده از نیروی انتظامی مربوطه نیز جرمی معنوی و مادی محسوب شده و دست اندرکاران مربوطه در نیروی انتظامی نیز شدیدا باید مورد مواخذه قرار گیرند.ضمن انکه اندسته از کارکنان وزارت بازرگانی که در یک اقدام هماهنگ با پاره ای از افراد ارباب رجوع چنان رفتار قبیحانه و مداخله جویانه ای در طول ان سالها در قبال بنده اتخاذ داشته و حتی جرات ناسزاگویی به بنده را بخود دادند باید پاسخگوی رفتار زشت و نابخشودنی خود باشند.ضمن اینکه این اراذل واقعی حتی شیطنت خود را به محیط شهرک مسکونی مان نیز تسری داده و منجر به حرکات مداخله جویانه و حسادت امیز تنی چند از اهالی شهرک مسکونی مان نیز گردیده اند و حتی باعث رفتارهای گستاخانه و نفرت انگیز برخی از کودکان این شهرک و… نیز شده اند.
دوما از انجایی که بنده از سال 79 پاسخ مثبت در زمینه امر ازدواجم با دختر خانمی از اهالی کاشان را دریافت کرده ام و این در حالی است که بنده هیچ گونه شناختی نسبت به این فرد ندارم و اصلا یکبار هم با وی محاوره ای نداشته ام که این بسیار زشت است .چرا که ممکن است این فرد اصلا مورد پذیرش بنده واقع نشود.لازم به ذکر است که نامبرده فقط در دومحل عامدانه مورد رویت بنده واقع شد.یکی در خوابگاه دانشگاه اصفهان(حدود 9 سال پیش) ویکبار در تعاونی مهمات سازی شهرک واوان واقع در وزارت دفاع خیابان پاسداران.واسطه های رذل دست اندر کار این مساله حتی اجازه گفتگوی بنده را با نامبرده ندادند تا بنده از نزدیک با روحیات و تفکرات وی اشنایی پیدا کنم و مانع از تداوم سو تفاهمات بعدی شوم.چرا که ممکن است این فرد به هیچ وجه واجد شرایط ایده ال برای همسر بنده نباشد و از طریق این عمل رذیلانه سنتی سرنوشت خود و بنده تباه نشود.ناگفته نماند که در طول این دوره بنده شاهد عینی تشدید جنایات سازمان یافته با عنوان بلا و ازمون الهی و… در قبال برخی از اعضای خانواده و… خود تا همین الان بوده ام و این همه توسط سربازان گمنام شیطان صورت می پذیرد.این خود فروختگان شیطان با تمسک به ایده های شیطانی و قرون وسطایی خود در کمال گستاخی خود را نماینده خدا و… میپندارند .در حالی که عمل انها تجسم عینی شیطان است .ناگفته نماند که انتقام خون های نابحقی که توسط اینها ناجوانمردانه ریخته شد در موعد مقرر با بیرحمانه ترین شکل ممکن گرفته خواهد شد و تمامی مجریان این جنایات به زباله دانی تاریخ سپرده خواهند شد و تا ابد مورد لعنت ما قرار خواهند گرفت .ناگفته نماند در طول این سالها عده ای عامدانه قصد عدم تحقق ازدواج بنده را داشته و به بهانه تست بنده و به انواع و اقسام رفتارهای بلاهت امیز و مداخله جویانه در قبال مان تمسک جسته و حتی علیرغم اشراف به مسایل دختر خانمهایی را تا همین هفته های اخیر به بنده معرفی میکردند که با معیارهای شخصی بنده هیچگونه وجه اشتراکی نداشته است. جالب اینجاست که من در طول همین سالها تا همین هفته گذشته دخترانی را به موسسات مشاوره و حتی اداره شما معرفی کردم تا بتوانم از این طریق تماس شخصی با نامبردگان داشته باشم و از طرز تفکر و سبک زندگی شان اشنا گردیده تا در صورت یافتن معیارهای مزبور در انها نسبت به وصلت با انها اقدامات بعدی را انجام دهم.منتها متاسفانه واسطه های دست اندرکار مزبور در این زمینه همکاری نکرده و یا حداقل افرادی را به بنده معرفی میکنند که اصلا بنده تمایلی به ادامه ان ندارم.حتی این عمل مداخله جویانه و حسادت امیز را از طریق افرادی که با منزلمان رفت و امد میبکنند عملی می سازند که جز رسوایی و شرمساری برای مجریان و طراحان این امر چیز دیگری همراه نخواهد داشت.که بنده انها را از ادامه این عمل حسادت امیز بشدت برحذر میدارم.چون جز خسران و شرمساری برای انها و همچنین دختران معرفی شده چیز دیگری بهمراه نخواهد داشت.بنظر میرسد که بدلایل بیشمار روشن کردن وضعیت ازدواج بنده قبل از هر اقدام دیگر یک ضرورت اجتناب ناپذیر است.چرا بنده تا قربانی شدن اخویم سعدالله (مسعود)یوسف زاده باید شکیبایی پیشه کنم و انوقت تازه با دخترخانمی که بنده اصلا با وی تماسی تاکنون نداشته ام و احتمال میرود که حتی مورد پذیرش بنده واقع نشود چرا که فاقد برخورداری از دو معیار اصلی(از سه معیار انتخاب همسر)می باشد و تنها مزیت او بر سایرین بهره زیبایی نسبی وی می باشد ازدواج کنم.حتی برخی از مردم سفیه و بیمار وحسود در خصوص تحقق و یا عدم تحقق این مساله با هم شرط بندی کرده اند. این روش ازدواج از دید بنده بشدت مطرود می باشد.بنده طی این سالها شاهد از سرگیری مجدد اعمال شیطانی نیروهای بازمانده از ابلیس بوده ام. بگونه ای که حتی میتوان اذعان کرد شهرستان اصفهان سلسله جنبان شیطان است.حال از این مساله بگذرم. قصدم این بود که با توجه به شرایط بدی که بر من تحمیل شده بنظر میرسد روشن شدن امر ازدواج بنده با یکی از افراد منتخب بنده(البته پس از صحبت مفصل با نامبردگان به منظور شناخت شان)یک امر اجتناب ناپذیر است. هر چند که بنظر میرسد این وضعیت تا دو سال (و بیشتر) دیگر به طول بکشدکه بشدت مورد مخالفت بنده است و تازه معلوم نیست که اصلا این امر تحقق یابد چرا که نامبردگان ممکن است اصلا مورد پذیرش بنده واقع نشوند.ضمنا برای کسب اطلاع بیشتر باید خاطر نشان سازم که بنده طی امیل ها و تماس های مکرر تلفنی با موسسات مشاوره ازدواج(نظیر خانه امید و صدای سلامت)و… معیار های انتخاب همسر خود را به وضوح بیان کرده ام که متاسفانه انها همکاری مثبتی با بنده نکرده و اگر هم قصد همکاری داشتند بگونه ای عمل کردند که اصلا با معیارهای بنده مطابقت نداشته است و صرفا به تحمیل تنش های مختلف انجامیده است.لذا بنظر میرسد که روشن شدن این مساله بگونه ای که با معیارهای بنده همخوانی داشته باشد و نه انگونه که تا الان انجام گرفته بر سایر مسایل اولویت دارد.
سوم این که با در نظر گرفتن این مساله که مشاغل سپرده شده به بنده بسیار روتین و پیش پاافتاده و فاقد ارتباط با سطح تحصیلاتم بوده و با در نظر گرفتن این مساله که شان و منزلت بنده در طول این سالها توسط هر ننه قمری مورد اهانت قرار گرفته بگونه ای که نهایتا ان وضعیت چندش امیز که به نیروی انتظامی انجامید کشیده شد وبا توجه به این نکته که بنده در شرایط فعلی خود را برای شرکت در امتحان دکترا ویادگیری زبان های خارجی و… نه به منظور در پیش گرفتن شغل استادی و تحقیقاتی که اصلا هیچگونه با علایقم سازگاری ندارد بلکه به منظور کار در یک شرکت بین المللی صادرات واردات و مشاغل متناظر با ان خود را اماده میکنم ضمن انکه به تسریع انداختن امر ازدواجم بر سایر مسایل با توجه به مطالب مطروحه فوق وبا در نظر گرفتن شرایط بحرانی تحمیل شده بر بنده و… اولویت دارداز سر گیری فعالیت بنده در حال حاضر جز خسران و ضرر احتمالا چیز دیگری به همراه نخواهد داشت.مگر اینکه بعد از ازدواج بنده مشخص گردد.لذا مستدعی است که اگر پس از ازدواج و شرکت در ازمون دکترا بنده را به از سرگیری فعالیت فرا خواندید مشاغلی به بنده سپرده شود که کاربردی و ساده وهمراه با کاراموزی باشد و بیشتر در شرکتهایی که جنبه بین المللی داشته باشد و عنصر زبان خارجی هم نقش محوری درا ن داشته باشد و افراد شاغل در ان از سطح مناسب فرهنگی و شخصیتی برخوردار باشند عملی گردد.
چهارم اینکه با توجه به اینکه تمامی مطالب عنوان شده از ناحیه بنده کاملا صحت دارد و به هیچ وجه زاییده اوهام و خیالات و دروغ نمی باشد و بنظر میرسد که جرایم و تخلفات نه از ناحیه بنده بلکه از ناحیه سایرین و منجمله پرسنل بازرگانی و حراست باشد و بادر نظر گرفتن این مساله که بنده در طول این دوره فاقد درامد بوده و از اندوخته های شخصی خود ارتزاق میکردم مستدعی است کلیه حقوق و مزایای معوقه بنده از طریق پست به حساب بانکی بنده ریخته شده و رسید ان به ادرسم ارسال گردد.ضمنا ایا شما قادر به بورسیه کردن بنده در اینده هستید؟لطفا پس از بررسی موارد مطروحه فوق وجوه معوقه بنده به ادرسم از طریق پست ارسال گردد. ضمنا خاطر نشان میسازد که بنده قصد ادامه فعالیت شغلی خود پس از ازمون دکترا در یکی از شرکتهای تابعه وزارت بازرگانی و… که به امور صادرات واردات می پردازد وعنصر زبان خارجی در ان نقش اساسی دارد دارم و به هدف دیگری ابدا نمی اندیشم(منظور تدریس و تحقیق).
امیدوارم که مطالب مطروحه از ناحیه بنده مورد تامل بیشتری قرار گرفته و اقدامات تخلف امیز و نفرت انگیز برخی از پرسنل بازرگانی و… دوباره تکرار نشود. هرچند که همکارانتان در اداره تخلفات باز همان رویه را به اشکال دیگری انجام میدهند. قبلا به ان اشاره شد.از اینکه مصدع اوقات شریفتان شده پوزش می طلبم.
ارادتمندتان کاوه یوسف زاده
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10octobr2008
با سلام اینجانب کاوه یوسف زاده می باشم .از طریق اینترنت و تماس تلفنی فرم شما را پر کردم. چندی پیش یکی از همکارهای شما تماس گرفت و موردی را معرفی نمود. باید بگویم که شیوه در پیش گرفته از ناحیه مو سسه شما جهت همسر یابی با تو جه به اطلاعاتی که قبلا موکدا به استحضارتان رساندم مناسب نمیباشد.باز تکرار میکنم که بنده در انتخاب همسر سه پارامتر سن زیبائی و اخلاق را به مثابه زیر بنا قرار میدهم.بنده به افرادی که درسنین بسیار پائین(14الی 19سال)بوده و از زیبائی زیادی برخوردار باشند و نرم های سازگار اخلاقی متناسب با بنده داشته باشندگرایش دارم. مشخصه ظاهری انها بدینگونه باشد که از موهای بلوند چشمان ابی برخوردار باشند. پستانی همانند به داشته باشند. قیافه ای شهوت انگیز و عاشق پیشه داشته باشند.اندامی متناسب داشته باشند.بسیار مترقی ازاده مهربان باصفا عاشق پیشه روشنفکر باشند. بشدت از تفکرات سنتی و قرون وسطائی احتراز کنند.امروزی باشند.به ارایش ظاهری خود بهای زیادی دهند. اهل هنر و ورزش باشند و به ان بهای زیادی دهند.بتواننددر موسیقی حرفی برای گفتن داشته باشند و تا ابد به ان بها دهند. ترجیحا پیانیست و یا گیتاریست باشند. ورزشکار باشند.ترجیحا ورزش شنا ویا سایر ورزش های مشابه. بسیار عاشق پیشه و رمانتیک باشند و گذشته ستیز و اینده نگر باشند. بدین معنا که نفرت شدیدی از تفکرات سنتی و قرون وسطائی داشته باشند.ضمنا بنده در طول چند سالی که در وزارت بازرگانی بودم بجز تعداد بسیار قلیلی بقیه مورد توجه بنده نبودند. طی چند هفته گذشته که بنده به شرکت بازرگانی دولتی واقع در میدان فاطمی طبقه هشتم مراجعه کرده بودم طی دو نوبت متوالی با دو دختر مواجه شدم که علاقه وافری داشتم با انها صحبت کنم. منتها شرایط مناسب نبود. اگر پیگیری کنید بسیار سپاسگذار میشوم تا این طلسم شکسته شود. چرا که متاسفانه تحقق و روشن شدن امر ازدواجم را به طی کردن سه مرحله (قربانی شدن پدر مادر و اخویم)منوط کرده اند و بنظر میرسد که اخویم بنام سعدالله (مسعود)یوسف زاده تا دوسال دیگر حداکثر قربانی شود.پدر و مادرم در شرایط فجیعی به شهادت رسیدند.ضمنا یکی از برادرانم چندی قبل ازدواج کرده و خانمش هم اخیرا به درجه دکترای خود نائل شدو 15 سال با او تفاوت سنی دارد.این در حالی است که او به این پارامتر اهمیت زیادی نمیداد و من بر عکس اهمیت فراوانی به ان میدهم.از این جهت این مطلب را گفتم که پاسخی به همکار شما داده باشم که فاصله سنی زیاد را توصیه نمیکرد .در صورتی که من کاملا برعکس ان معتقدم و به سنین تین ایجر علاقه دارم. ضمنا باز تقاضا میکنم پس از قرائت نامه های بنده قبل از هر اقدامی عکس افراد جویای ازدواج که با معیارهای بنده همخوانی داشته باشند را به ادرس امیلم ارسال کنید . بنده قادر به شرکت حضوری در موسسه شما به دلایل متعدد نمی باشم.و قبل از دیدن موارد پیشنهادی اصلا باب صحبت با انها را باز نمیکنم و خیلی بهتر است که موسسه شما هم نظیر سایر موسسات همسریابی عکس های انها را برایم از قبل از طریق امیل بفرستید و توضیح مفصلی که توسط خود متقاضی نوشته شده را از طریق امیل ارسال نمائیدویا انکه میتوانید دخترانی را که من به شما معرفی کردم مثل همین دو موردی که در شرکت بازرگانی دولتی بودند پیگیری کنید تا من از طریق همکاری شما بتوانم با انها صحبت کرده و از طرز تفکر و برنامه های انها برای اینده مطلع شوم که بسیار مهم بوده و اصلا بدون طی این مرحله کارهای دیگر عبث میباشد.پس الان متوجه شدید که بهتر است قبل از هر چیز دیگر عکس و شرایط افراد نامبرده را برایم ارسال کنید و یا منتظر باشید تا من افرادی را به شما معرفی کنم تا بتوانم از رهگذر موسسه شمابا انها اشنا شوم.خیلی ممنون هستم از زحمات شما.امیدوارم که از این به بعد روش کارتان را بگونه ای که با نقطه نظرات من سازگاری داشته باشد هماهنگی نمائید. ضمنا بنده زندگی خودنوشت خود را که حاوی اطلاعات بسیار وزین و ارزشمندی است حضورتان ارائه میدهم.امیدوارم که موفق باشید.
ارادتمندتان کاوه یوسف زاده
با سلام اینجانب کاوه یوسف زاده دارای مدرک کارشناسی ارشد در رشته اقتصاد میباشم.جویای ازدواج با دخترانی برخوردار با شرایط ذیل می باشم:بسیار زیبا بچه سال متمدن مترقی مهربان باصفا ازاده خوش فکر تحصیل کرده و… باشند.دخترانی که شدیدا از تفکرات قرون وسطائی احتراز کرده و شدیدا غیر سنتی باشند.دخترانی نواندیش و…مورد علاقه بنده است .کسانی که فاصله سنیم با انها بسیار زیاد باشد.سنین نوجوانی از منظر بنده مناسب می باشد(کران پائین ان).بنده دوست دارم که همسران اتیم اهل هنر و ورزش بالاخص در زمینه موسیقی کلاسیک و…باشند.دوست دارم که همسران اتیم همواره مشوقم باشند و به شکوفائی مستقلانه و ازادانه ام بسیار بها دهند. از جهت اخلاقی با بنده سازگاری داشته باشند و به این نکته بسیار مهم اشراف داشته باشند که من از تفکرات سنتی و قرون وسطائی بشدت متنفرم.لذا اگر انها در جهت تغییر تفکرات خود قدمی برندارند صد درصد مطمئن باشند که بنده هرگز نمیتوانم شریک زندگی شان باشم و بنابراین از همین حالا از تصمیم خود منصرف شوند و زندگی خود و بنده را تباه نکنند.بنده چند سالی است که در وزارت بازرگانی به فعالیت اشتغال دارم و در طول این دوره و حتی قبل از ان دخترانی به بنده پیشنهاد شد که اصلا با معیارهای بنده سازگاری نداشته اند. حتی در همین شهرک مسکونیمان چنین رویه ای از ناحیه برخی افراد بی اطلاع تا همین هفته های اخیر پیشنهاد شد که اندک تشابهی با معیارهای بنده ندارند و صرفا به تشدید تنش های مختلف انجامیده که کار بسیار اشتباهی است که اینها انجام میدهند. در طول چند هفته اخیر بنده با دو دختر خانم در دو نوبت متوالی در اداره بازرگانی دولتی طبقه هشتم واقع در میدان فاطمی مواجه شده ام.خیلی دوست دارم با انها صحبت کنم و از نقطه نظرات و تفکرات شان مطلع شوم.از حیث ظاهری انها بنده را به خود جذب کرده اند. منتها از جهت فکری نسبت به انها اطلاع ندارم و شاید با اصول فکری بنده همخوانی نداشته باشند.خیلی دوست دارم که مشاورین شما قدم رنجه کرده و تمهیداتی اتخاذ کنند که بتوان با انها بیشتر اشنا شد.لازم به ذکر است که طی این چند سال هیچ کدام از پرسنل وزارت بازرگانی نظرم را به خودشان جذب نکرده است. بجز تعداد بسیار قلیلی که متاسفانه اکثرشان ازدواج کردند. لذا تسریع به امر پیگیری در این زمینه مایه کمال امتنان است و پاداش ان هم متعاقبا به شما تقدیم می شود.ضمنا باید بگویم که بنده در طول این سالها شاهد عینی مصائب بسیار مدهشی بوده ام که از رهگذر ان پدر و مادرم به نحو جانگدازی پس از طی رنجهای تحمیلی بسیار به شهادت رسیدند و یکی از برادرانم نیز متاثر از هم
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